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'Wise, beautiful, heartbreaking, raw' The Times

'A beacon of hope to all of us who will be bereaved' Kathryn Mannix

'An unforgettable and achingly beautiful story of enduring love' Lori Gottleib

Internationally renowned psychiatrist and author Irvin Yalom has devoted his career to counselling those suffering from anxiety and grief. But never had he faced the need to counsel himself until his wife, esteemed feminist author Marilyn Yalom, was diagnosed with cancer. In A MATTER OF DEATH AND LIFE, Marilyn and Irvin share how they took on profound new struggles: Marilyn to die a good death, Irvin to live on without her.

In alternating accounts of their last months together and Irvin's first months alone, they offer us a rare window into coping with death and the loss of one's beloved. The Yaloms had rare blessings - a loving family, a beautiful home, a large circle of friends, avid readers around the world, and a long, fulfilling marriage - but they faced death as we all do. With the candour and wisdom of those who have thought deeply and loved well, they investigate universal questions of intimacy, love, and grief.

Informed by two lifetimes of experience, A MATTER OF DEATH AND LIFE offers poignant insights and solace to all those seeking to fight despair in the face of death, so that they can live meaningfully.


Dr Irvin Yalom is an emeritus professor of psychiatry at Stanford University and the author of many books, including Creatures of a Day and the bestselling Love’s Executioner. He and his wife, the author Marilyn Yalom, live in Palo Alto, California.

Marilyn Yalom is a senior scholar at the Clayman Institute for Gender Research at Stanford University, and the author of A History...

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  • 巴哈哈
    一天一章,俩夫妇轮流对话,看到玛丽莲去世那章泪水无意识的滑落,“Her flesh was hard and very cold. That icy kiss will haunt me the rest of my life!”2021-10-22
  • 找到自己的千寻
    Thank you Yalom and Marylin for being so honest and exposing yourselves through your writing. Although the book is about death and separation, I have drawn so much courage from you two. To live is to die, yet from the cradle to the grave, we’ve got a long way to go. 2022-12-08
  • peachplumpear
    第一章已经读得泪崩 越读到后面内心越平稳 最后一章 作者以给亡妻的一封信结尾 “it is the idea, not reality, matters” 2021-06-01

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